I just got a bb that had a flash, I wanted to try my hand at the same problem. In the end, I still had to work. On the subject that I observed during the entire testing period, it was that if the video coverage is hidden, as you said, the flash will not work ... So, the trick I did was
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_videoControl.setDisplaySize( 1 , 1 );
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.
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_videoControl.setDisplaySize( 0 , 0 );
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... ,
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_videoControl.setVisible(true);
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