How to get Internet Explorer to open the current executable instance instead of creating a new one?

How to programmatically launch IE ( iexplore.exe) and navigate in the currently running instance (by opening a new tab or replacing the current URL) Instead of creating a new instance.

I searched for the command line switch and tried to use InternetExplorer.Application, but to no avail.

Here is the pseudo of what I need (IE6-IE9 will be nice):

ShellExecute(Handle, 'open', 'iexplore.exe',
    '"http://google.com" -single_instance',
    nil, SW_RESTORE);

Here are some examples that demonstrate my efforts. code in Delphi (partially based on How to get IHTMLDocument2 from HWND ):

implementation

uses ShellApi, ComObj, ActiveX, SHDocVw, MSHTML;        

function GetIEFromHWND(WHandle: HWND; var IE: IWebbrowser2): Boolean;
type
  TObjectFromLResult = function(LRESULT: lResult; const IID: TIID;
    wParam: WPARAM; out pObject): HRESULT; stdcall;
var
  hInst: HMODULE;
  lRes: Cardinal;
  Msg: UINT;
  pDoc: IHTMLDocument2;
  ObjectFromLresult: TObjectFromLresult;
begin
  Result := False;
  hInst := LoadLibrary('oleacc.dll');
  if hInst <> 0 then
  try
    @ObjectFromLresult := GetProcAddress(hInst, 'ObjectFromLresult');
    if @ObjectFromLresult <> nil then
    begin
      Msg := RegisterWindowMessage('WM_HTML_GETOBJECT');
      if SendMessageTimeOut(WHandle, Msg, 0, 0, SMTO_ABORTIFHUNG, 1000, lRes) <> 0 then
        if ObjectFromLresult(lRes, IHTMLDocument2, 0, pDoc) = S_OK then
        begin
          (pDoc.parentWindow as IServiceprovider).QueryService(
            IWebbrowserApp, IWebbrowser2, IE);
          Result := IE <> nil;
        end;
      end;
  finally
    FreeLibrary(hInst);
  end;
end;

function GetActiveIEServerWindow(const Activate: Boolean=True): HWND;
var
  Wnd, WndChild: HWND;
begin
  Result := 0;
  Wnd := FindWindow('IEFrame', nil); // top level IE
  if Wnd <> 0 then
  begin
    WndChild := FindWindowEx(Wnd, 0, 'Shell DocObject View', nil);
    if WndChild <> 0 then
    begin
      WndChild := FindWindowEx(WndChild, 0, 'Internet Explorer_Server', nil);
      if WndChild <> 0 then
      begin
        Result := WndChild;
        if Activate then
        begin
          if IsIconic(Wnd) then
            ShowWindow(Wnd, SW_RESTORE)
          else
            SetForegroundWindow(Wnd);
        end;
      end;
    end;
  end;
end;

// Method 1
procedure TForm1.Button1Click(Sender: TObject);
const
  navOpenInNewTab = $800;
var
  IEServerWnd: HWND;
  IE: IWebBrowser2;
begin
  IEServerWnd := GetActiveIEServerWindow;
  if (IEServerWnd <> 0) and GetIEFromHWnd(IEServerWnd, IE) then
  begin
    // *** this opens the Default browser, e.g Google Chrome 
    // *** if IE is the Default browser, an empty new window is opened.
    OleVariant(IE).Navigate('http://www.yahoo.com', Longint(navOpenInNewTab));
  end
  else
  begin
    ShellExecute(Handle, 'open', 'iexplore.exe',
    '"http://google.com"',
    nil, SW_RESTORE);
  end;
end;

procedure InternetExplorerNavigate(URL: WideString);
const
  navOpenInNewTab = $800;
var
  IE: OleVariant;
begin
  try
    // *** this always fails (security constraints?)
    IE := GetActiveOleObject('InternetExplorer.Application');
  except
    IE := CreateOleObject('InternetExplorer.Application');
  end;
  IE.Visible := True;
  IE.Navigate(URL, Longint(navOpenInNewTab));
end;

// Method 2
procedure TForm1.Button2Click(Sender: TObject);
begin
  InternetExplorerNavigate('http://google.com');
end;