solution 1:
xcopy /d/y
must work..........

decision 2
echo "No" | copy/-Y c:\source c:\Dest\
works. testing
2 folders have the same files, allow you to try to copy.
C:\r\Roi>echo "No" | copy/-Y . 2
.\DSpubring.pkr
Overwrite 2\DSpubring.pkr? (Yes/No/All): "No"
Overwrite 2\DSpubring.pkr? (Yes/No/All):
.\DSsecring.skr
Overwrite 2\DSsecring.skr? (Yes/No/All):
0 file(s) copied.
allows you to create 1 new file
C:\r\Roi>copy con g.txt
sdfsdf
^Z
1 file(s) copied.
:
C:\r\Roi>echo "No" | copy/-Y . 2
.\DSpubring.pkr
Overwrite 2\DSpubring.pkr? (Yes/No/All): "No"
Overwrite 2\DSpubring.pkr? (Yes/No/All):
.\DSsecring.skr
Overwrite 2\DSsecring.skr? (Yes/No/All):
.\g.txt
1 file(s) copied. <------------ one file only