The theme says it all - I updated my RavenDB on Nuget, and Raven.server.exe made a runner ... where is it?
There he is:
http://nuget.org/packages/RavenDB.Server
Adam, try watching this YouTube video explaining which version to use and where.
VS projects should either use RavenDb.Client or RavenDb.Embedded .. and just load the RavenDb server separately. (again, refer to this video for why / how / etc.)